It's true. Giving birth is a life-changing event. 8 months post natal and I still have not resumed my exercise regime. Worse is, I don't feel the urgency to, so unlike me.
Life as a mum. I read this somewhere 'I have never been this tired in my life, but at the same time, never this happy.' I think the fact that I lost my freedom and carefree lifestyle somehow made me a sadder human being, so the latter is not true for me. All I know is, I have never loved anyone like this before and I have never wanted to give so selflessly before. (Awww...)
Having a child can rob you of the things that you once thought you can't do without. The sick thing is, you gladly let it be robbed. The child is everything now. I know this is not very healthy, so I try to make a conscious effort to grab back a bit of my former glory. But trust me, it just doesn't seem that important when compared to the baby. (Oohh...a mother's love)
So, each day, I tell myself that I'm not only a mother but a wife, a daughter , a sister and a teacher (you see even as I typed my subconscious ranked it in order of importance). But the husband and the parents and the sister and the school do not need me as much as the son. And I go back to my own mummy world. Tsk tsk.
Okay, the baby is making noise and I have to perform the mummy duty again. Till my next post then...
TA TA
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Monday, June 11, 2012
The Gift
Wow, so the last post was before the delivery of the little cutie pie. So much in my mind but I do not know where to start. I shall try.
12 April 2012, T1211123H. Such nice numbers! Hope your life will be as beautiful as the numbers given to you. :)
Life as a new mum is indeed not easy. Now I understand why some women would prefer going to work than staying at home to look after their children. At work, I know when I can finish my job and go home. As a mum, I can't see the end of my job. Everyday is a new challenge and though it's a wonderful feeling to be needed that much by someone, it's really draining.
I'm glad that I persevered breastfeeding until now. The first few weeks were really the hardest. Thankful for a hubby who were there to give support. For a man who hates reading, reading articles on breastfeeding is considered a feat! Thank you, bao bei! (let's not mention the part that I wanted to give up breastfeeding, haha)
With this new addition, our marriage life has changed too. Time has been given to parenting. Whatever couple time we have now has to be pre-planned and with the help of my mum. I used to look forward to 6pm each day because the hubby is gonna come home soon and we can spend the entire evening together. Now with a new career, the husband is working hard and I just cannot expect him to come home as early as he used to. Sigh.
I'm still undecided about taking no pay leave. I guess I just need someone to decide for me this time. Or rather, I need to hear that it'll be alright for me to do that. I'm just worried about the money. Oh wells.
12 April 2012, T1211123H. Such nice numbers! Hope your life will be as beautiful as the numbers given to you. :)
Life as a new mum is indeed not easy. Now I understand why some women would prefer going to work than staying at home to look after their children. At work, I know when I can finish my job and go home. As a mum, I can't see the end of my job. Everyday is a new challenge and though it's a wonderful feeling to be needed that much by someone, it's really draining.
I'm glad that I persevered breastfeeding until now. The first few weeks were really the hardest. Thankful for a hubby who were there to give support. For a man who hates reading, reading articles on breastfeeding is considered a feat! Thank you, bao bei! (let's not mention the part that I wanted to give up breastfeeding, haha)
With this new addition, our marriage life has changed too. Time has been given to parenting. Whatever couple time we have now has to be pre-planned and with the help of my mum. I used to look forward to 6pm each day because the hubby is gonna come home soon and we can spend the entire evening together. Now with a new career, the husband is working hard and I just cannot expect him to come home as early as he used to. Sigh.
I'm still undecided about taking no pay leave. I guess I just need someone to decide for me this time. Or rather, I need to hear that it'll be alright for me to do that. I'm just worried about the money. Oh wells.
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
39 weeks
At this time, I'm starting to wonder when will the baby arrive. He has been very cooperative so far, growing comfortably inside to a healthy 3.4kg (approx). I'm actually glad that he wants to be inside for this long. Ah, this selfish mummy is enjoying the 'extra' time given to be prepared. :P
Let's hope for a smooth and fast delivery!
Saturday, March 31, 2012
Anytime Now
38 weeks.
Current weight of baby: Approx 3 kg.
Current weight gain : 12 kg
Emotional status: Excited, Apprehensive
Plans: Stopping work; Dedicate time to myself and coupledom while we still can; Get prepared.
Current weight of baby: Approx 3 kg.
Current weight gain : 12 kg
Emotional status: Excited, Apprehensive
Plans: Stopping work; Dedicate time to myself and coupledom while we still can; Get prepared.
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
At 32 weeks
I believe my body (the stomach portion to be exact) has stretched to its maxiimum capacity. Constant fatigue overpowers me.
Backache, bloatedness, constipation, leg cramps and increased body temperature are bothering me now.
Moreover, the hubby often works late. My demanding job requires me to talk non-stop, walk up and down the stairs, get agitated at pupils who disobey instructions and hold the need to go to the toilet.
Can I just don't go to work anymore?!?!?!
Above all these, the frequent kicks and turns never fails to brighten my day. I love you!
Backache, bloatedness, constipation, leg cramps and increased body temperature are bothering me now.
Moreover, the hubby often works late. My demanding job requires me to talk non-stop, walk up and down the stairs, get agitated at pupils who disobey instructions and hold the need to go to the toilet.
Can I just don't go to work anymore?!?!?!
Above all these, the frequent kicks and turns never fails to brighten my day. I love you!
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Being Married
It's when two become one, and joined as a single entity.
It means whatever decisions made will affect US, not I or you.
It reminds me of the roles and responsibilities as a wife, and you as a husband.
It tells me that we have to stick together no matter what happens, and never take the easier way out.
It makes me feel comforted and loved, to know that I have your hand to hold till death do us part.
It has taught (and is still teaching) me a new perspective of love.
More than just love.
It means whatever decisions made will affect US, not I or you.
It reminds me of the roles and responsibilities as a wife, and you as a husband.
It tells me that we have to stick together no matter what happens, and never take the easier way out.
It makes me feel comforted and loved, to know that I have your hand to hold till death do us part.
It has taught (and is still teaching) me a new perspective of love.
More than just love.
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